We went to visit with family on Christmas day. We cooked part of the dinner including grits, greens, black eye peas, cornbread and red eye gravy, packed it in the car and drove 30 minutes to thier house. But when we got there we could hardly move around the place for all the empty boxes and all the strange tension in the atmosphere. Instead of happiness and warm comfort there was uneasiness, anger and resentment all in the face of so much food and so many gifts. The table was set with heated… Continue